The Flow Method · Hermit

Know the words.
Stay in the conversation.

You can know English and still go blank. Practise responding with the English you have, before you’ve planned every word.

See the difference
Two people listening and responding in conversation
Listen. Respond. Keep going.

01 / The moment that matters

The words you know.
The words you can reach.

Someone with simple English can make mistakes and keep talking. Someone who knows more can get stuck checking every sentence.

Grammar, vocabulary and pronunciation matter. Using them under pressure takes practice too.

A colleague asks

“What do you think
we should change?”

You think

“‘Improve’ or ‘develop’?
Which tense is right?”

You keep editing in your head. The conversation moves on.

Choose “Keeping it simple” to see another way.

02 / What you practise

Practise the moment
you usually go quiet.

You practise inside conversations, where you need to listen, choose and respond in real time.

  1. 01

    Speak

    Start before it’s perfect.

    Answer with the English you have. A real conversation gives you something to respond to.

  2. 02

    Notice

    Find the moment you hesitate.

    Notice when you start checking grammar, searching for a word or judging how you sound.

  3. 03

    Practise

    Find a way to keep going.

    Try a simpler sentence, a question or a phrase that buys you time while someone responds.

  4. 04

    Use it again

    Return to it in a new conversation.

    Repeat the speaking move. The aim is less planning and more attention on the other person.

The aim

Less planning in your head.
More attention on the conversation.

You still think about what you mean. With repeated practice, the aim is to spend less effort assembling and judging each sentence.

03 / Think of dancing

Knowing the steps is not the same as dancing.

Knowing the steps

You know each position.
You’re still counting in your head.

Dancing with someone

You follow the music, respond to your partner and recover from a missed step.

Grammar gives you the steps. Conversation asks you to listen and respond before you can calculate every move.

Rami, founder of Hermit

Why I built it

“I wanted practice to include the moment a learner doubts themselves, not only the sentence they produce.”

The method brings language practice and attention to the same conversation. It does not treat confidence as a personality trait you either have or do not have.

Rami Psychologist and founder of Hermit

Meet Rami

Start with your experience

When do you go blank?

A short questionnaire about what happens before, during and after speaking becomes difficult.

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